Here in Serbia , women love when you talk a lot . If you are shy ,they say that you are stupid , or you see yourself better then others. Granny told me "talk,even if you have nothing to say, let tongue do the marching left and right". As we say " five women-bus station". 10 women talk in the same time ,the louder you are-more respectful, every aspect of life, sometimes details from bed time, whitch made as girls being supriced and even afreid of marriage, the way they spoke about "those shamefull things" 😁😁. I was little when we had visit from woman named Mila from Montenegro. Montenegren women are very proud and elegant. Mother told us , that we must say no word while she talks . It was so strange and intresting to me. And she talked tottaly different from women in my area- Slow, with changing tones of voice, while in the room you could here nothing but the wind ... One smoke of ciggar, then she would take a deep breth, moving her eyebrown up to see are we girls listening..She talked about bravery of her men in family, brothers, father, in the time of war..I can still smell the taste of old tobaacco , as they used to made fresh..and elegance in the way she talked, sit and holding her shoulders..
